I'll get a hard time if he finds out I've got HIV and we didn't use a condom.
(We all know the score. If he's bothered about HIV, he'll say about condoms.)
In two minds? It's isn't always clear who should take the lead with condoms. But unless you're sure he's HIV positive too, there's a real risk you could pass HIV on. Weighing up the pleasure against the hassle you might get can help you decide if it's really worth it.
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